Sunday, February 24, 2008

Sunday Thoughts February 24th, 2008

1) Peter is on the train to Hong Kong as I write this. He'll arrive at 5am Monday morning, our time. That'll be 29 hours on a hard sleeper!

2) Peter's Visa! For anybody who doesn't know, Peter was told he had to go to Hong Kong to have his visa changed. He should return by the end of this week.

3) English Week in May! We are worried that it could be canceled because of the impending college evaluation. There are two evaluations that the college must pass this year. The first of which is next week; the other will be almost two months from now.

4) Please continue to think about our team unity.

5) Our classes started this week! The most important time to remember is Friday, 2-4pm our time. That'll be Friday morning 1-3am EST.

6) I spoke with my father for 90 minutes last night. My mom is still in Iowa caring for my Grandfather, so my parents have been apart for a couple weeks now. It's been hard on them to be apart for the last couple weeks.

7) My Grandfathers diagnosis came back and they confirmed that he has Lymphoma. He was diagnosed with Leukemia a few years ago. I didn't know you could have both! Anyway, he's 89 years old, and I'm sure he's not in the least bit worried. He's a WWII veteran, with two replacement knees, a replaced hip, and a pacemaker. This will be just one more thing for the calmest person I know, and it'll make his 90th birthday that much sweeter in his eyes. However, this will be hard for my mother. In fact, even for me it will be difficult, since he is the last of my Grandparents.

Brad

Friday, February 15, 2008

February 6, 2008: Happy Chinese New Year!

Dear friends,

For the first time ever, Brad and I had the opportunity to celebrate the Chinese New Year in Beijing with our Chinese friends! It was an amazing day. The Chinese New Year is the equivalent of the American Christmas and Thanksgiving combined. The roads, trains, and airplanes are clogged with people heading home to spend the holiday with their families.

We began our Chinese New Year by running 3 miles at 5:30am. It was difficult to wake up so early, but we logged our required miles for the day. It was actually quite intriguing, seeing the sun come up over the track, and watching the trains whir by with their box-shaped windows lit like a moving string of pearls. We arrived in Beijing by 11:30am. From Beijing, Peter and Shannon went to Datong (a 5 hour trip) to spend the holiday with a friend there, while Brad and I went to the Pearl Market to pick up a few things before taking the subway to Tony and Lily’s home.

Our afternoon and evening were spent with our friends Tony and Lily Zhang. They invited us to share the day with them and their families. Lily’s mother is staying with them for an indefinite amount of time due to her health, and Tony’s mother and father were visiting for three days before a trip to Canada to visit Tony’s brother. The seven of us had a great time. Lily and Tony shared stories, photographs, and books from their recent trip to the USA where they stayed with Newt and Claire, and even met my parents and brother. Tony and Brad used the time to plan our trip to Xinyang. Tony and Lily’s parents did all the cooking, and shooed out anyone who intruded! Dinner was delicious: jaozi (dumplings), lotus soup, real ham, shrimp, mint M&M’s, wine, soda, and “honey sugar flaky greasy lump” (we couldn’t figure out the English translation of that one). Tony and Lily translated between us and their parents, and we had a wonderful time.

After dinner Tony and Lily took us to the apartment of their friends who were out of town. Their friends generously allowed us to spend the night for free! We watched the traditional Chinese New Year program on television (China’s version of Dick Clark), and then tried to go to sleep at 10pm (we had an early start the next morning), but the fireworks were deafening! Beginning about 3 weeks ago, we started to notice the occasional crack of firecrackers and fireworks. With each day, the noise grew closer, louder, and more persistent, often waking us up at night or early in the morning. Running around the track I would jump at the sound of a “Cannon” blast nearby. By midnight on New Year’s, it sounded like we were under attack. I have never seen or heard so many fireworks in the entirety of my life. As we stood at our 15th story window in Beijing, we watched the fireworks explode between buildings, reflecting off of windows, echoing down the streets. In many places, children set off fireworks unattended. Due to the height of our apartment, many fireworks exploded right next to our window! The window and wall would rattle with every burst.

After about an hour of trying to sleep through the commotion, I gave up and went back to watching television with Tony and Lily. At midnight I took the camera to the window, and attempted to capture some of the effects in film. It was frightening, frustrating, and fascinating all at once. It made you want to cover your ears, and it made you want to gasp in awe. Nothing in my life could compare the cacophony of light and sound. Eventually at 1:30 I attempted to go to sleep again after the worst was over, but I still woke up throughout the night as further volleys shook our building. Traditionally, many Chinese do not sleep on New Year’s Eve, but will stay up all night long. Now we know why!

The next morning we were up at 6:00am to run our 3 miles and catch our train to Xinyang. The streets were littered everywhere with the shells of empty cardboard boxes, firecracker casings, and blackened sparklers. Despite the noise and mess, I have to admit that I think the USA could make better (and more aesthetic) use of gunpowder by following the Chinese example on this. Take away the people’s guns, and let them have fireworks. ;) We hope that you all had a happy Chinese New Year, and are looking forward to “The Year of the Rat.” Take care, and happy holidays!

Love,
Jess and Brad

February 5, 2008: My 27th Birthday

Dear friends,

I have celebrated twenty-two birthdays in Maryland and four birthdays in Michigan, but this year I had the privilege of celebrating my first birthday in a foreign country! This birthday was also unique in that I turned 27 years old in the USA and I turned 28 years old in China. :) Brad tells me that the 27th year is the "Breakout Year" for a major league baseball player, so it appears I am in for a great year! It was a terrific birthday, and one I will remember for a long time to come.

The morning began with breakfast in bed provided by my wonderful husband. Brad made me oatmeal and a fried egg on toast, complete with a lettuce garnish. All was served on the silver toaster oven tray, with lots of kisses on the side! After breakfast, my parents and little brother Josh called on the phone to wish me a happy birthday. Then Brad, Peter, and I went for a 3 mile run. I spent the rest of the afternoon writing in my journal, writing to my sister, reading, and memorizing the Book.

My three compatriots decided that for dinner, they would take me out to a nice restaurant by People’s Park. On the way over we noticed a lot of lights. February 7 (two days after my birthday) was the Chinese New Year, and much like the USA, most of the celebrations take place on New Year’s Eve (February 6). We had dinner in a little restaurant where we sat on swings to dine. We were served bright pink milk tea (resembling Pepto Bismal) that had a strawberry flavor. We ate one of my favorites for dinner, pork and pineapple. Mmmm… When we left the restaurant, we realized that the entire Park had been lit for the “Festival of Lights.” We walked through the Park, admiring the beautiful tributes to the “Year of the Rat” and the 2008 Olympics. It was quite magical.

When we returned from the Park, Shannon invited us up to her apartment for hazelnut coffee. After serving us, Peter brought in the birthday cake and everyone sang “Happy Birthday.” Each person gave me a thoughtful gift. Shannon gave me a pashmina scarf and a bath set. Peter gave me two favorite books. Brad gave me “The Notebook” DVD and an orange necklace. Then we got a good laugh out of trying to talk with our lips sealed, as if there was someone trapped in our mouths. You’ll have to watch the video on Facebook to see the results! As the evening came to a close, Brad and I packed our bags for our week-long vacation, and attempted to watch “The Notebook,” and then went to bed.

Thank you again to everyone who made my day so special! Your cards, gifts, e-mails, phone calls, and Facebook messages were a joy to receive. Thank you for thinking of me and making my birthday in China so wonderful!

Love,
Jessie

Monday, February 4, 2008

February 4, 2008: Oh, the places you'll go...

It is a delight to write to you every couple of weeks and share what is going on in our lives! Brad occasionally has to prod me to write a letter, but I am glad that you can participate in our adventures even as we think of you so often. To us, you are here with us, exploring and learning about this vast and paradoxical country.

Last week was about new discoveries. I had been trying to reach a local orphanage for most of the autumn. I had done research on the Internet, made phone calls, and talked to the students and faculty of our school, all with little success. Finally on January 21, as I was preparing to throw away the information I’d gathered, I decided to make one last phone call. I was thrilled to reach an American English speaker at the Philip Hayden Foundation! Brad and I made arrangements to go the next day.

The 30-minute drive to Tanjin was an adventure, but we arrived at the brand-new facility and were escorted around by Leah from Wisconsin, the director of guest services. Leah showed us around and explained that the Foundation was founded and (primarily) funded by Americans. The Foundation collects special needs children from orphanages all over China, and pays for them to get the corrective surgeries they need, before educating and adopting them out to their new parents. Most of the children are in need of surgeries for cleft lip and/or pallet, heart problems, brittle bones, or other deformities. A few children had developmental delays or downs syndrome. I held a little girl (Christy) whose cleft lip had just been repaired recently, and Brad fell in love with a little boy (Oliver) whose left ear was deformed. These children are otherwise healthy, but unwanted by their birth parents. It was delightful to spend the afternoon learning about this special orphanage, and the special children who live there. We are looking forward to going back in the future, and bringing some of our students along too.

On Wednesday, Shannon’s friends Allie and Allen picked up our train tickets for us, and on Thursday we joined Shannon, Peter, and Peter’s parents in Beijing. Brad and I had made reservations to stay in a hostel, but the Lucas-Roberts generously insisted on paying for us to stay the night in the Chongwenmen Hotel with all of them. Brad and I were given a lovely two-room arrangement. It was great to be right down the hall when the group wanted to play speed scrabble or talk about life! We had lunch together and then meandered over to the Forbidden City. Unfortunately, it was “forbidden” to us as well because we arrived at 3pm, just as the park stopped selling tickets for the day. So instead, we wandered through Houhai, and arrived at Beihai Park. We had a great time climbing stone stairs, investigating a cave, posing on statues of animals, and enjoying views of the city and frozen lake from above. We thawed out on the bus, and at dinner, enjoying the Lucas-Roberts attempts to eat peanuts with their chopsticks. Brad even managed to slip away to find a few cheap DVDs at the Pearl Market.

On Friday, we all put on our warmest clothes (temperatures were in the low single digits all week, with wind chill), and headed across town to look for a bus to take us to the Great Wall of China. At the bus stop, my student Vicki and her friend Andy joined us. They were in Beijing to audition to be volunteers for the Olympics. Vicki had called me on Monday to see if they might join us, and we were only too happy to have Chinese friends along for the day! We had a great time. The two-hour bus ride took us out of town, and into the mountains outside the city. At many low points, the highway went right through gaps in the wall. Vicki showed us the research she’d prepared about the wall, and told us facts about the wall as we traveled and arrived.

The weather was “bitter” cold and very windy, but we chose the steepest path up the wall. Within a short distance we were thankful for our choice, because there were few other tourists. It was great to have the wall to ourselves. We took a lot of photographs, and paused for a brief lunch at the end of the restored wall. Frozen through, we turned back for the descent. Unfortunately, I struggled with vertigo for most of the climb up and down due to the height and shear drops! The stairs were uneven in height and surface, and in some places one had to crawl up the stairs. I enjoyed the climb nonetheless, and was amazed by the views. Brad, Peter, and Vicki chose to keep going up the other side when we reached the bottom, but the rest of us decided to thaw out in…Starbucks. No lie. There was a Starbucks in the little one-horse town of Badaling. My favorite touch was the western-style toilet, paper towels, hand-dryer, and toilet paper! We don’t see those very often here!

After the Great Wall, Brad and I returned home for a very quiet week of vacation. Shannon and Peter brought the Lucas-Roberts to Langfang on Sunday, and Shannon made us all chili and cornbread. I experimented with foods too, making homemade pizza (ham and pineapple!), homemade salsa, and homemade chips (from Chinese flatbread). Mmm… Otherwise, Brad and I have been running a lot in the cold, reading a lot of books, and watching movies before bed. You can be thinking of us as we wait to see if the weather will clear up enough for us to go to Xinyang later this week to visit the grave of Brad’s great-grandfather. You are always in our hearts as we work here. Thank you for everything!

Love,
Jess and Brad

Saturday, February 2, 2008

The Great Wall

Last week a group of us visited the Great Wall, and it was amazing! We visited a section of the wall that is located just north of Beijing in Ba Da Ling. As I walked around, the history and the beauty of one of the Seven Wonders of the Medieval World amazed me. It was crazy to think that I was standing on something that was older than the country in which I was born.

In my curiosity, I looked at everything. At times, I ran around like a kid in a candy store, as I envisioned myself defending the wall against the “evil Mongolians hordes.” At other times, I found myself stunned by the effort it must have taken to create a wall that stretches as far as the distance from Los Angeles to Boston.

About half way through the day we had only explored about half of the three-mile section of wall that was open to visitors. I wanted to continue, but others wanted to get something warm to drink at the local Starbucks. So we agreed to meet later and a few of us continued on the northern section of the Wall. It took about 40 minutes to get past most of the visitors on our way to the peak. Once we got there, we noticed that there was about another mile of wall that was open to visitors. Almost everybody that was there was just going to the peak and turning around; the remaining mile was barren! I wanted to keep going, but the others were ready to turn around because of the time. So I promised that I would run the remaining portion of the wall if they would wait for me at the peak.

Although, it was extremely exhausting, it was the best decision I could have made. It was great; I was alone on one of the Wonders of the World! It was like I had my own personal visit with man’s greatness.

Then in a fit of exhaustion, it hit me! My legs were burning, I was gasping for air, and I was alone as I jumped up and down like Rocky on the steps in Philadelphia. I started to look around, realizing for the first time that I was in the middle of the mountains. The sun was low in the sky, and it was one of the most picturesque moments I can remember. I thought to myself, man’s greatness? How can man’s greatness even compare to the greatness I see around me? The best we can create is a wall, a barrier meant for separation, but the glory of Creation breaks that barrier. I was standing on top of one of the greatest accomplishments in the history of the world, and it’s greatness paled in comparison to the greatness of Creation. As I ran for the final 20 minutes on the Wall, all I could do was worship in humble adoration!

Then I ran to Starbucks, and had a cup of hot chocolate.

Brad